This is a list of books that have been helpful to our family as we seek to raise our children in the Lord. It is specific to topics we usually cover at our moms’ group (which is why I put this together!), but if you want book recommendations on a specific topic (ie holidays, biography, suffering, what the Bible says about women, etc.) for adults or children, or quality children’s fiction, or if you want to ask if a certain book is any good, drop me an email – smileykyleigh.dunn (at) gmail.com – I can talk about books all day and love connecting people with good books! It’s easy as moms to get sucked into only reading in a narrow field of books, but I would encourage you to branch out and read widely on a variety of topics and to seek out deep, Bible-based books on the challenges in your life (as well as finding lighter books to encourage you and give your soul rest!).
Where to purchase: Amazon has all of these books, but if you care about not feeding the Amazon giant or supporting Christian businesses look for them through Christian Book Distributors, Grace and Truth Books, and Westminster Books. I have linked all of them, but that doesn’t mean that the link is the only place that carries it.
If you want this in PDF form, with pictures of the different books, leave a comment and I will get it to you!
Also, please share your favorite books!
For Kids
Good News for Little Hearts series: these are put out by the Christian Counseling & Education Foundation. They are helpful for discussions with our kids about things like anger, failure, fear, etc. (I feel like they could use a better editor, but we have still found them very useful and helpful!)
Tales That Tell the Truth series: Most of these are Bible stories that are then related to Jesus or drawing out a theme that goes across the whole Bible, but God’s Very Good Idea is about differences (ie race, special needs, etc). We love some of them more than others but they’re all very good. The three pictured are our favorites!
The Ology (Machowski). This is a Bible overview that takes a more theological tack and discusses things like the Holy Spirit, baptism, etc.
New City Catechism (a newly-written catechism with two levels. Very helpful for answering kids’ questions or for them to memorize!)
Love Made (Quina Aragon). About creation and the Trinity, especially addressing why God made the world. It’s a beautiful book. It ends with talking about how our children, like the world, are made from an overflow of love. (Negative reviewers complain that because of this it isn’t great for adopted kids, though).
God Made All of Me (Justin and Lindsay Holcomb). Great book for teaching body autonomy/personal safety for young kids, and in a way that does not turn parts of the body into “dirty” parts.
*There are others in this series I haven’t read that deal with race, gender, and disability. They all look very good and based on who the authors are I feel like I can recommend them safely.
Good Pictures, Bad Pictures (Kristen Jenson). About pornography. They have two levels of this, one that is a picture book good for kindergarteners, and one for elementary school. Like God Made All of Me, it’s unfortunate we have to have these conversations, but we do need to have them proactively if possible.
The Story of Me (Stan and Brenna Jones). This is the first in the God’s Design for Sex series. I have not read the others but we like this intro. It is written from a young boy’s perspective, so with girls we do have to change a bit, but we really like it.
*I have also heard good things about the Pure Foundations series by Jim Burns.
What Every Child Should Know About Prayer (Nancy Guthrie)
Everything a Child Should Know About God (Kenneth Taylor) – a simpler book like The Ology
Everyone a Child Should Know (Clare Heathe-Whyte)
*I have not actually read these three but have browsed their previews on Amazon and they look superb.
Big Thoughts for Little Thinkers (Joey Allen). Helpful books for explaining the gospel and the trinity to kids – we haven’t read the other two but I’m sure they’re good based on the others.
The Emblems of the Infinite King (Ryan Lister). A beautiful, convicting, thought-provoking systematic theology for kids (and adults!). Aimed at 8+ but beneficial for all.
Children’s Bibles:
Preschool and Kindergarten: The Big Picture Storybook Bible (David Helm)
Early Elementary: The Child’s Story Bible (Catherine Vos, for a more detailed Bible)
The Biggest Story (Kevin DeYoung, for an overview – there are only 10 chapters)
For Such a Time as This (Angie Smith. Stories of women in the Bible)
Note: The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones is very popular, but our opinion of it is rather unpopular. We have found it to be very wordy and theologically skewed towards ignoring the justice of God/punishment for sin. That said, it has lots of good components as well, especially helping kids see how the Bible is not a moralistic handbook but a Story about Jesus coming to save us.
For Mom
Marriage
When Sinners Say “I Do” (Dave Harvey). Provides an understanding of sanctification in marriage, the “life-transforming power of the gospel in the unpredictable journey of marriage.” Very practical in daily life.
This Momentary Marriage (John Piper). Focused more on the purpose of marriage, but also more in-depth than Harvey’s book, and goes more into roles, having children, and covenant.
Marriage and Money (Matt Bell). A practical, detailed book for getting on the same page financially as your spouse and getting your finances in order.
Intimate Issues (Linda Dillow and Lorraine Pintus). “21 Questions Christian Women Ask About Sex.”
The Meaning of Marriage (Tim and Kathy Keller) I have heard good things about but not personally read.
Parenting
Parenting (Paul Tripp). A big-picture parenting strategy, especially good to see what our role as a parent really is. There is lots of repetition, but in a good way if reading it slowly, because there is SO much good it’s overwhelming. My favorite quote: “If your eyes ever see and your ears ever hear the sin, weakness, and failure of your children, it is never a hassle, never an interruption, never an accident; it is always grace. God loves your children and has put them in a family of faith, and he will reveal the need of their hearts to you so that you can be his tool of rescue and transformation.”
The Mission of Motherhood (Sally Clarkson). This is so encouraging as to what our roles as mothers are and how important it is, but also provides a lot of help for areas we may want to grow in – serving, discipling, teaching – while also enriching their lives and our homes.
Desperate (Sarah Mae and Sally Clarkson). But for all the nice, lofty ideals of motherhood, we know that daily life is often a lot more desperate! And this book is for the difficult parts of motherhood – selfishness, lack of training, the housework beast!
Risen Motherhood (Laura Wifler an Emily Jensen). Applying the good news of the gospel to the difficulties of motherhood: birth, body image, food choices, traditions, self care, and lots of other things.
Spiritual Growth
Women of the Word (Jen Wilkin). This is a great book to increase your love for and understanding of the Bible.
Even Better Than Eden (Nancy Guthrie). I have not read this book specifically, but it is a more personal, applicable introduction to biblical theology, which is really just fancy for the story of the God’s work to redeem His people. Even just dipping your toes in biblical theology will change the way you read Scripture!
Gospel Treason (Brad Bigney). Don’t read this book unless you are ready to do a lot of deep heart-work and have your life changed as your driving desires are revealed and you see where you are worshiping things other than God. I cannot recommend this book enough.
(For a more specific, less in-depth discussion of heart idolatry, check out Idols of a Mother’s Heart by Christina Fox or Humble Roots by Hannah Anderson)
12 Ways Your Phone is Changing You (Tony Reinke). Another book that is “hard” to read because of how much it will convict you and make you desire to change – but also help you change! If you struggle with using your smartphone or even computer too much this is a must-read.
Mama Bear Apologetics (Hillary Morgan Ferrer). I have not read this one either, but have heard great things about it and it’s a more relatable angle on a topic that can be very dry and hard to get into as moms (especially of young kids!).
*For a deeper look at some of the cultural issues we face today, check out Total Truth by Nancy Pearcey.
Because He Loves Me (Elyse Fitzpatrick). If you want to understand more of what the gospel means and how it applies to your life, please read this book! It was life-changing for me in my understanding of how deeply sinful I am, and yet how much God loves me because of Jesus.
Stop Calling Me Beautiful (Phylicia Masonheimer). “how to pursue the truths of who God is and who you are in relationship to Him; how to study Scripture, and how your view of God determines how you face life’s challenges; how legalism, shallow theology, and false teaching keep you from living boldly as a woman of the Word; how to experience God’s presence in painful circumstances.” (I have yet to read this one but follow her on social media and love her podcast, especially what she has to say about anxiety and Bible study).
Devotional/Bible Study
A lot of women’s devotionals are not based solidly in Scriptural truth and are aimed to make us feel good rather than know God more, but these are ones I have found theologically sound and spiritually edifying.
Real Change (edited by David Powlison). A Bible study looking at how sin is uprooted in our lives and replaced with fruit of the Spirit.
Walking with God in the Season of Motherhood (Melissa B. Kruger). An eleven-week Bible study that offers both encouragement and growth for mothers.
Beholding and Becoming (Ruth Chou Simons). A beautifully illustrated, Scripture-filled devotional. It isn’t geared towards motherhood, but there is a lot about being faithful in the mundane and it is so good!
Foundations (Troy and Ruth Simons) “Foundations will help you direct your family one day at a time as you explore 12 key truths that will help connect your children’s hearts—and yours—to the heart of God. With a simple, chapter-a-day format that includes Scripture, devotional thoughts, meditations, and discussion questions, this book will guide you in leading your family.” (Blurb from their website. I haven’t read this one but it sounds very good and I trust the authors!)
Mom Enough (edited by Desiring God). A collection of short articles from the Desiring God website. Encouraging, challenging, and great to pick up for small moments.
Treasuring Christ When Your Hands are Full (Gloria Furman). Helping you pursue a “vibrant relationship with God” in the midst of busyness. Somewhat longer than in Mom Enough, but very refreshing.
Online:
– Risen Motherhood (Blog & podcast) www.risenmotherhood.com
– Fierce Marriage (podcast) www.fiercemarriage.com
– Faithful Life (Club31 Women – blog & podcast) https://club31women.com/category/podcast/
– Phylicia Masonheimer (blog & podcast) https://phyliciamasonheimer.com/